One day…

I believe this to my core. Everything is just preparing me to be who I need to be so when that person comes into my life, I'll know how to love and appreciate them. Have you already found said someone?

What I did when my ex asked me back

I have to admit I'm pretty proud of myself. See, when you're going through a break up, a small part of you wishes you could get back together. Even though I know this is for the best... It's like there's a disconnect between my brain and my heart. My brain logically understands this is the best thing for everyone involved. My heart feels otherwise.

This isn’t what I signed up for

I was overcome with sorrow. I suddenly felt overwhelmed and genuinely bad for myself. I kept thinking, I know that I have what it takes to raise three girls on my own, but I don't want to. This isn't what I signed up for. This isn't how things were supposed to go.

Breakup- A Family Ride

You see, I don't hide my tears. I cry when I feel like crying and laugh when I feel like laughing. I don't think it's healthy for them to think I'm a super woman. To watch me go through a painful breakup yet hide the reality of the experience. That's giving them a false sense of what it's like to be an adult and a woman. I don't want them to think that means you never hurt, struggle, or cry.

The Breakup Roller Coaster

I want to mourn this loss so I can realize that often times, it's the very failure that puts us on the path to success. Because that's what this feels like right now- an epic failure. But I can't dwell on that because even though it wasn't all good it wasn't all bad either. We had some good times together and I can't help but believe we served a purpose in each other's lives (even though it wasn't what either of us thought).

Work from home mom NOT homemaker…

As silly as it sounds, division of household labor is something that has been a struggle. Battling the reality that as a working mom, I can't live up to the expectation of keeping a home the way my stay at home grandmother did as a homemaker. The reality is, I know what comes with running a household but I have no desire to be homemaker hence why I choose to work. I have this silly notion in my head that being in a two income household, that means that the brunt of the household labor shouldn't be on one partner. If that's the case, it's really not much different than being a single work from home mom...

Heartbreak is like having broken ribs…

I wanted to make it work at all costs. I tried everything I could. Until I knew I was holding onto the fantasy of what could have been instead of accepting the reality of what was. We went back and forth on what to do. Whether to stay or go our separate ways. But in the end it was clear, the best thing to do was to walk away.